Do you have a quote you live your life by or think of often?
So many people throughout history have provided wise words that hold some measure of “magic” that makes them resonate with others. There are many choices, from simple sentences to long form narratives, that we can choose from. When I first read this prompt I couldn’t decide where I wanted to go with my answer because I have four different sources of inspiration, but I think I’ll share them all with you in the order of most consistent impact they have had on my life.
The first one is simple and incredibly important. One that I think should resonate with everyone, and if you’ve watched the recent Fallout series from Amazon then you’ve heard it. It’s “The Golden Rule”. Do unto others as you would have done unto you. Now, I try to remind myself of this every day, because I believe there is so much truth to those words, however, I take it a step further. I don’t want to let people walk all over me or push me around. I won’t strike first, because I wouldn’t want to be hit, but I won’t let someone who WOULD strike first have that power over me. I won’t show them unnecessary kindness or respect if I can clearly see they mean to harm me or have otherwise ill intent. I show them the kind of treatment I would except for myself if I were in their shoes. I’ll leave it at that and let you all mull it over.
The second one is just as short and simple, if a slight bit fanciful. It comes from the game Tales of Symphonia, spoken by the character Kratos. Courage is the magic that turns dreams into reality. I don’t necessarily remind myself of this day in and day out like The Golden Rule, but I like to remind myself of this when I feel like I need to take a leap of faith. It falls in the same realm as “nothing ventured, nothing gained” and all the other phrases that sound similar.
The third and fourth ones I’ll lump together more so because they’re too long to contain in a simple blog post. Third one is very much like the second one and is probably much more familiar to many people. It’s The Man in the Arena from Teddy Roosevelt. Regardless of his history and controversies from his lifetime, there is a measure of truth to his words. I’ll let you choose to look it up so that I can move right into the fourth one from Bruce Lee. I find his essay The Passionate State of Mind to be a wonderful window into the minds and souls of individuals. Self-awareness, ego, pride, self-worth. How we see and value ourselves as compared to others. Well, I keep articles bookmarked for both of these sources of inspiration so that at any given time, if I feel the need to, I can refer back to them. I would encourage you all to look into them and see how they resonate with you.