Who do you spend the most time with?

What counts as “spending time with someone” these days? Do we just have to be in the same room/close proximity and not speaking to each other? Does it count if I’m spending a large chunk of my day at work in a cubicle and there are people around me that I may not talk to at all?

If that last bit counts, it’s definitely people at work, much to my dismay. I spend more time with my family on the weekends than I typically do with my roommates throughout the entire week because after work I spend maybe anywhere from a couple minutes to half an hour with my roommates before I retreat to my room or my computer setup in the basement.

The only instances of significant time spent with one of the roommates is when we play Magic with our friends. Those nights can run from as early as 5:00PM til Midnight (usually shorter) and only happen once a week or less. These days usually less.

Now, to change things up, could you count time spent in Discord voice calls with online friends as “spending time together”? If so, that can be significant time after work and on the weekends. We play lots of games together, so it would make sense to count it.